Everyone comes into your life for a reason. You have a gift for them, and they have a gift for you.
people are not sent into your life for you to change or mold them into what you think they should be, but to be loved and appreciated for who they really are.
It’s a reasonable request to ask others to treat you a certain way, and then give them the freedom to treat you the way you want, but it’s an unreasonable request to expect them to change their nature or who they are so you don’t feel insecure about yourself, or so you can feel validated.
Everyone resents having their freedom restricted, being told what they can and can’t be, people trying to place limits on their potential and being expected to become something they are not and have no desire to become.
Instead of trying to change others into the perfect person you want, instead focus on becoming the type of person you want to attract!
And do not settle or stop searching until you find someone who already is exactly what you are looking for.