As I am about to turn 31 tomorrow I thought I would start by saying how grateful I am to have made it this far. I would also like to thank God for allowing it to be so. Everyday really is a blessing remember that guys and enjoy it whiles it last. 

Life is to short to be stressing out over things or people that are just not worth your time or hassle. So as I turn 31 I feel it well be a turning point in my life I hope for the better. In the mean time I also want to thank everyone who’s made a difference in my life so far, without you guy’s it would have been if not already a difficult journey, made even harder. 

And so I’m very blessed to have even if it’s only a handful of people in my life today that I trust and care about the most. I do not need to mention any name’s as those people that mean the most to me, and vise versa, know who I’m talking about. 

Sometimes God put’s people in your life for a reason and other’s a season. And I can honestly say I’ve learned a lot from these people, even if there stay was short lived. There was something, or a lesson to be learned or gained from it all.
People come into your life to help you grow as an individual and to help you become a better
version of yourself always remember that guys.

Life is a like a lift. On the way up
some people get on and others get off. Some people stay for a while, and others longer, and
some if your lucky enough to have such great friendships and relationships, stay with you
on your whole journey.

You will know the people in your life who you can count on the
when it really matters most, and those who are just passing by or others you could never trust due to there devious or insincere nature. 

I’m at that age now where I’ve set my standards high in regard’s to the people I choose to hang around with, and communicate with on a daily basis and so should you. Nobody knows what the future holds. All I can do is be the best version of myself that I can possibly be. I cannot control how other people behave, or act, I can only
control how I show up at the end of the day, and choose the people that I want to be in my life.

I’ve learned to let go of things or people that do not serve my best interest, not because I think I’m bigger or better then them, because I’m not. But rather for the sake of my own personal growth as a person, and what I stand for.

There is an old saying that goes like this; You are the average of the five people that you consistently
spend your time with!

Be Real!

If the foundation of your life is not built on integrity you well fail in almost all areas in your life.
Be true to yourself and who you are, and people well see that you are actually the real deal as opposed
to someone who is just a fake. Guys out there, woman especially know when a guy is not being real with them, they have an
in built sensor if you will, and they have all politely said “No thanks” I’m not interested. Because you tried
to manipulate them, you lied, you where not being real. The thing is most people know when you’re not being real and authentic with them in the long run anyway, so be real guys. Be someone who people can look up to
and can say” he was the real deal”.

So with that being said I hope you have enjoyed this short article, and as I’m about to turn 31 and have some fun stuffing my face with cake, I hope it will be a sponge cake with fresh cream by the way, but we well have to wait and see. In the mean time guys stay blessed, appreciate life, follow your dreams and goals,

Until next time in dealing with relationships and things that really matter most in life take care yours truly’



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